In particular if you are doing it, this piece may be a little triggering and you may also have a propensity to become defensive.

I would want to talk on affirmations and remedies that are associated to getting a particular person or object because many folks start their spiritual journeys with those.

What we often overlook when applying solutions for a particular person or circumstance, is how our self-worth or sense of who WE are as people is deeply impacted by it.

Unknowingly, we begin to celebrate our sense of lack and desperation, by misinterpreting contempt as a sign and we say things like, “Oh at least usne call kiya toh kiya” or “the salary is quite low, but the brand is very good.”

It’s not wrong that one text or phone call from that person/job can make or destroy your day.
It is OK to treat someone with special consideration if you are attracted to them or wish to work for a certain company.

BUT

If we have based on how someone acts or behaves or whether we succeed in the interview to how we feel about ourselves, then there is a deeper problem.
Whether someone likes us or if we land a job shouldn’t be the main factors in determining how we feel about ourselves.

This viewpoint typically explains why things don’t work out.

Because the underlying state is one of “control, fear of loss, and lack of faith in oneself.”

It is completely fine to perform remedies or affirmations for a particular person, work, or object.

It was always meant to be about YOU, but if we can only love ourselves if that other person does or if we have that job, then we have lost the point.

Hence, it is imperative not to get obsessed with the results, to trust the process and accept the result as to be in our highest good. Along with affirmations/ remedies it is very important to work on our fears, conditioning or a sense of lack from where the desperation to possess something or to have someone in our life gushes in.